My Admiration Grows

Who is someone that I admire and look up to?  Someone that inspires me to be a better person?  My little brother, Danny.  I have heard him say the same thing about me, but I honestly don't know any specific reason, or how I have inspired him, other than trying to be a generally, overall good person.

Here are some things about him that some people may know, but most may not.  He is difficult to get to know.  He doesn't open up and let just anyone in- it takes a lot of time and effort.  However, once you do get in, you realize that he has one of the biggest hearts of anyone I know.  He has to protect it- that's why he doesn't let everyone in very easily.  He is very thoughtful, loving and giving.  He gets great pleasure from helping others.  He is one of the most selfless people I know.  And if you take a little time to break through that tough exterior, you will see that. 

Since he was a teenager, he has logged countless hours of volunteer work, in many different venues.  He thoroughly enjoys helping and doing for others.  On Thursday, he volunteered at a battered women's shelter, serving food.  After he returned, he told me that he enjoyed his experience and that he met some interesting people.  I told him I was proud of him, and this was his exact response, "Well, be proud of them.  It's a major sacrifice living in that type of community and actually having the courage to get out of an abusive situation." 

Tears filled my eyes and my heart melted just a little bit more for him.  I'm so glad he is my son's uncle!!!  He truly exemplifies a giving spirit.  As the holidays approach us, and all year long, we should remember things like this.  Try to give back, even in little ways, because it makes a difference for others.  As we have hard days and hard times, remember that there are others that are struggling too.  We can be a blessing to them.